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Sheila Jacquelyn Volpe
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Sheila Jacquelyn Volpe

May 1, 1934 – December 2, 2024

Raleigh, NC

Sheila Jacqueline Volpe, 90, of Raleigh, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on December 2, 2024. She was reunited with the Lord and her beloved husband, Lawrence J. Volpe.

Born on May 1, 1934, in Rochester, NY, to the late C. Phillip Kilgras and Jessie Patterson Kilgras (Bemis), Sheila was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend. She was preceded in death by her husband, Lawrence J. Volpe, and her stepdaughter, Sharon Donato.

Sheila is survived by her son, James Volpe (Jeanne); stepdaughter, Sandra Sullivan (George); her sister, Marlene Panello.; brother, Donald Kilgras; and many cherished grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

A devout Catholic, Sheila moved to Raleigh in 2001 to be closer to her family, quickly becoming a beloved member of her community. She contributed her time and talents to the Falls River neighborhood as a member of the Garden Club, co-chair of the Landscape Committee, and an active participant in the Cokesbury social group. Prior to her move to Raleigh, Sheila had a successful career at Rochester Bevel Gear, where she worked for 35 years, starting as a bookkeeper and retiring as Vice President.

A funeral Mass will be held at St. Francis of Assisi Chapel on January 11, 2025, at 1:00 pm. A memorial service and burial will take place in Rochester, NY, at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in the spring of 2025.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Sheila’s memory to the Jimmy V Cancer Foundation (www.V.org).

For more information, please contact Jim Volpe at 919-271-0205 or email jvolpe@nc.rr.com.

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Grandma Shiela was truly a great grandma to me and all the other grandkids and the great grandkids and the 2 great great grandkids!! Always remembered everyone’s birthdays and always ready to listen!! She loved my grandpa and truly missed him everyday so I’m glad she is reunited!!! I wish I lived closer to visit more but greatful to have the phone!!! I will truly miss her but keep her memory within me!!RIP gramma!!!!❤️

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Grandma Shiela an awesome educator and grandma

George and Sandy

Sandy and I were saddened to hear of Sheila's passing. Our hearts go out to Jim, Jean, Bella, and Bridget. Sheila was an exceptional woman. Very caring and thoughtful. Every family member could always expect to receive a birthday or special occasion greeting card from her. She and Larry had a very loving and long life together. She is now reunited with him and will be greatly missed.

Dorothy Lawson

Sheila and I enjoyed sharing memories of our previous home, Rochester, New York. She was a wonderful friend and neighbor. She left her mark as the founder of Ladies of Cokesbury, which was an inclusive, welcoming group. She was loved and will be greatly missed. Dorothy Lawson

Neyda Donato

Sheila was so caring and loving. I enjoyed our talks and our many emails. I was so sad to hear of her passing. I know she is now reunited with her love Grandpa Larry. Rest in Peace sweet lady.I think of you often. Thank you for all the talks and love. Neyda Donato

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